This past week has been a flurry of holiday festivities – or convivios as the parties are known here – which I guess would literally translate as living together, or celebrating together in this context. My policy of accepting any and all social invites has resulted in my being out almost every single night the past week and a half, and also has led to some personal insights to ponder in the upcoming year. 1. I am more patient now than I was when I arrived in Guatemala. Invitations for activities always start at least an hour after the established start time and the events drag on way longer than I am interested in staying. 2. I am a lot quieter than I used to be. In most social settings I tend to sit back quietly and observe unless I am spoken to directly. While I have enjoyed the copious amounts of food coming my way, I am also a little convivio-ed out at this point, so I look forward to eating my weight in tamales for Christmas and then detoxing on my own for a while.
But I am getting ahead of myself. Work before parties. Last week started out with women’s groups. On Monday I was very excited to go to Ciprés because I had made a really good charla about nutrition. Basically, we started out with a dinámica (dynamic or ice breaker) called fruit-vegetable-grain where we would toss a ball to a random person and shout one of those terms and the woman who caught the ball had to name a fruit-vegetable-or grain. Then she would throw the ball and the process would repeat. The point of the game is to not repeat anything that has already been mentioned and it was meant to get them started thinking about different classifications of foods. Then we had a discussion about the five different types of nutrients (carbs, fats, proteins, vitamins, and minerals) followed by my introducing the food pyramid and then handing out cards with different foods for the women to read the backs of (each card described a different vitamin or mineral that could be found in that food) and then post up on the board in the food pyramid that we made out of string. Of all the charlas that I have done since arriving in site, I think this one was the most balanced and best prepared, so it is a good model for next years work.

Luz with our food pyramid
On Tuesday we had our clausura, or closing ceremony, in Las Vegas where Luz has been going for the past six months and taught cooking classes and handicrafts. We went early because for the last class the women wanted to make paches – which are tamales made out of potatoes –imagine mashed potatoes with meat filling, and they take a LOT of work. I also requested that we make arroz con chocolate since no party is complete without some form of fattening beverage. It was a long afternoon and it was a bit sad to say goodbye to all the girls (even though they never really talked or seemed all too enthusiastic about participating, they were bummed about classes being over). Three of the girls in class wanted to take photos with me for the memories, which I found very flattering:P Two of the girls are twins and they each wanted two photos individually with me and one together. I guess I now know how Hollywood stars feel a little more now hahaha.

With the twins
Tuesday night was also my first convivio of the week at the nicest local restaurant – Tamarindo. The dinner/gift exchange was with people from the Center for Special Education and from the radio station. Since I had spent the better part of the afternoon burning my mouth on arroz con leche and paches before they were cool enough to drink/eat, I was not too hungry, but the food was good, and the gift interchange was pleasant. I preferred the gift that I had to the gift that I received, but thankfully this was just the first of many gift exchanges.
On Wednesday evening, I participated in the first of what will hopefully be a long running radio show – Mesa Redonda Juvenil (Youth Round Table – I came up with the moniker!!). Our first show was about how to get youth to volunteer more in town, why it is important, and how we can promote volunteerism. The show was about 1.5 hours long and apparently got good reception. For my part, I am excited to be involved in another radio show that will hopefully help me speak more fluidly and naturally on the radio and also get to know other people.

With the rest of the panel on the radio show
Thursday we were supposed to go back to La Joya to work with the women on their candle-making operation, but we got a call on Wednesday afternoon informing us that our services would no longer be needed since the women had already dissolved their group. Apparently this happens a lot with groups of women, so it is not a total shock, but it is still disappointing since I was really looking forward to going over my finance spreadsheets with them (nothing that Professor Kane would recognize, just basic sheets for calculating expenses and income). Hopefully one or two of the women will take the skills she used and translate that into a successful income-generating source.
On Thursday night I went back to Rosy’s house for the third night of cookie baking. All initial growing pains are fully behind us and we made some killer thumbprint cookies and brownies from a brownie mix I had bought in Guatemala City the week before. It was really funny because I kept getting complements on how good the brownies were when all I did was add the water, oil, and egg the recipe called for, but I guess the unnamed ingredient – love – did play a role in the cookies tasting so good, so I took credit.

My cookies!
On Friday afternoon we had another convivio – this time at the Centro Educativo Fé y Esperanza, the center where we have been giving art classes. A lot of the children with special needs came to the center and enjoyed some free gifts from Santa, music, tamales and ponche (hot fruit punch – the typical Christmas drink).

After the
convivio at the Center I accepted an invitation from the mayor to go with him and his family to a nearby community in Baja Verapaz to see how artisan sugar cane juice is made. When I was in Bolivia last year I saw a lot of sugar cane and smelled the results of its processing in a factory, but I had never seen the processing up close. The cane is fed into a grinder that grinds as two oxen walk around with a yoke in a circle. The liquid that comes out is funneled into a huge barrel in the ground and then buckets are used to translate the juice into a big cauldron where it is boiled and then the resulting liquid is put into molds to dry into
panela, a sweetener that preceded the use of sugar. I drank some juice as it came into the barrel, it was nice and green, sucked on sugar cane, and ate
panela and other sugar derivatives. It was all very tasty and I was very thankful that the mayor invited me along to check out a dying craft.

Making sugar cane juice the old school way
On Saturday I went back to Boanerges’ house for my weekly lunch invitation. At lunch I got my first Christmas invitation for lunch the following Thursday (for some reason they celebrate Christmas here on the 24th). After lunch, I went back to Rosy’s house where her father took out some artifacts that he had found on his property some ten years back. He is not sure what their value is nor what time period they were made in, so he was showing them to the optometrist who has some friends with studies in archeology. I took advantage of the opportunity to take tons of photos. There were 13 statues, one of which Rosy’s uncle took with him to California and lost, so 12 remained and they all seemed to be paired (with two statues holding corn, two holding birds, etc) with a male and female deity in each pair.

Artifacts
Sunday was my most social (and cold!) day to date – eating every single one of my meals with someone else. In the morning I went downstairs to have breakfast with Doña Tona, the woman who’s house I am living in. I am hardly ever home so I do not have much of a relationship with her family, which I started feeling bad about. A week ago Sunday I went downstairs and invited her to have some tea with me, and in exchange she offered me some bread and we had breakfast together and chatted. During the week I attempted to invite her to tea again, but she heads out to one of the communities to take care of her mother every day so she never has time. So I bided my time and when Sunday rolled around again we had tea and bread again. Doña Tona invited me to have Christmas dinner with her family, an invitation I eagerly accepted and filling up my dance card for Christmas Eve Day (lunch and dinner, check!)
At 9am I headed down to Rosy’s house to help her mother make tortillas. We did not start making tortillas until 11am (hora chapina – Guatemalan time), and I was able to make some pretty good ones for an hour or so, at which point they began to tear and fall out of my tired hands.

Some of my prettier tortillas with Doña Berta's (mine are smaller)
I stayed at Rosy’s until 230pm eating, cooking, doing dishes, and hanging out until 230pm. One of the things I love about hanging out with Rosy’s family is that they think I do not eat enough and get annoyed when I do not eat everything I am offered. I also liked that when I left at 230pm, five hours after I arrived, they all asked me if I would not be returning, which makes me feel like part of the family. By 230pm it was raining pretty hard, finally getting some winter weather (though we are in the dry season in Guatemala so the rain was really unexpected) and I ran home to put on some warmer clothing before going down to the municipality to meet with Luz Maria and some other folks for my fourth convivio of the week at Luz’s house. Given that Luz came to drive us to her house in a pick-up, the rain was a complicating factor, and we did not end up leaving until 430pm. Luz’s convivio was pleasant – we ate paches, drank ponche, and had a chocolate interchange. We stayed at Luz’s house until 830pm and the rain showed no sign of giving up, so I put on my nylon and rain coat and got in the back of the pickup for the half-hour ride back to town.

Still smiling because we have not yet embarked on the ride back
It was while I was sitting in the back of the pickup with little feeling in my hands and none in my butt that I realized accepting all social invitations was really not worth my time. Sure I like eating, but I also like being dry – Athalia’s hierarchy of needs. I hope everyone has a wonderful Holiday Season and Prosperous New Year’s! Feel free to make comments on the blog posts and also let me know if anyone is interested in skyping and I will look into the local internet café’s skype options.