This Saturday marks my one-week mark in training, and it is hard to believe that so little time has passed since I arrived in Guatemala. People keep telling me that time flies, but I feel like I have already been here a month at least with all of the new stuff I have been seeing and doing. I have settled in pretty comfortably with my family here, I am even starting to call my host mom ‘Mamatina’ (which is what all of her grandchildren call her) and which feels a little more familiar (kind of like saying grandma instead of Missus host mom every time I talk to her). First things first before I forget, I have finally become the proud owner of a TIGO telephone and my phone number for those of you itching for long distance phone calls is 5185-1401 (I think the international calling code is 502). Since I last wrote I have been getting a lot of love…from zancudos (mosquitos and little flies that bite) or maybe something else?
As I might have mentioned before, Guatemala has been suffering from a drought this past year, but the day that I arrived in my host community, it poured and ever since it has rained almost every day at least a little bit. While this is wonderful for Guatemala, it has been less than ideal for me since I am a bug-magnet and the rainy season is a huge aphrodisiac for bugs, they are EVERYWHERE. This past Wednesday I woke up with bug bites all over my back, and since I have been wearing clothing pretty regularly, I was really concerned that I might have bed bugs. Mamatina told me that she coubted that I had bed bugs since the last volunteer who left two weeks before I arrived did not have any problems at all. I decided to start wearing deet spray and we lit some incense that kill bugs in my room and I thought all was solved... until I saw a flea on my bed! I ransacked the bed looking for the flea and siblings and we changed the sheets to white ones (to see if bedbugs would leave the tell-tale signs) and found nothing. The mysterious back bites and other sundry bites seem to be from zancudos and possibly from fleas that I unknowingly brought into my room off of the street (from now on I need to take my socks and pants off and shake them out as soon as I enter my room to prevent further problems). While I recognize that this issue of mine is probably not nearly as interesting to anyone else as it is to me, it has definitely been on my mind this past week so if anyone has any suggestions for home remedies for bug bites (or preventing them, how can I make my blood less tasty?) let me know.
Thankfully, it has not just been scratching and bed hunting this past week, there has also been plenty of interesting cultural experiences to recount. Every day this week, except for Tuesday, which is training day in the Peace Corps office, we have been attending Spanish class from 8am-1230pm and then 130-3 or 4pm. One day our afternoon activity we played musical chairs and whomever lost had to answer questions about Spanish grammar.
A local woman making a huipil
Along with sitting and discussing Guatemalan History and culture, Sandra takes us out every day to meet different people in and around the community. One day we went on a walk and passed by one of the many tortilla stands (basically a house that says in front ‘Se vende tortillas a los tres tiempos’ – We sell tortillas in the morning, afternoon, and evening). We walked into a house where two young girls were tortillando. Sandra spoke to us about the comal (the oven that the tortillas are cooked on) while the girls looked on and then asked them if we could try to make tortillas. The girls were surprised, Sandra is probably the most forward Guatemalan I have met, but they said ok. We paid for the dough and while we tried to make tortillas, which was entertaining to watch since we all took forever to make deformed tortillas, we found out that the two girls are sisters of 13 and 14 years old and the older one essentially works all day while the younger one does go to school in the afternoons. My tortilla was really tasty and I have decided that my new goal is to learn how to tortillar before I leave Guatemala. Mamatina lives right around the corner from a tortilla stand and I have been going there to buy tortillas and observe the ladies who work there. I am hoping that through watching enough I will learn better form.
On Thursday this past week we had our first technical training meeting. Our meetings for technical training are going to switch around to be in each of the four communities that municipal development volunteers are doing their training in. For this first training we went to another host town, a town that is known for its boots (good quality, good price). We had our reunion in one of the houses of another PCV and I must admit, while my lodgings are pretty cushy, I felt like I was on MTV Guatemala Cribs. The house had a humongous backyard where we all sat and had our meeting; the bathroom had a door that locked and a faucet indoors with running water (which I quite literally have not seen since I got here, most people have a pila outside which they use to wash their hands, laundry and do dishes). Along with a faucet, I got pila-envy since the house had a customized pila that looked like a pool. In our meeting, we all got assignments for the upcoming weeks. This Wednesday my group will be meeting up with our counterparts in the Municipality and we'll be working with the OMP (Oficina Municipal de Planificación) and the OMM (Oficina Municipal de la Mujer). We were also informed that we only have one more week of Spanish class to go, we'll be doing more work with the municipality instead of taking Spanish classes since we have the language skills necessary already. We are all pretty excited to meet our counterparts, it seems like we are constantly being told about work that is going to come up but we have yet to really get started, but we are sad that Sandra is going to leave us:(
This Saturday for our half-day of Spanish class we had a special event where we learned local wedding traditions of our town. Not only were we given an explanation in both Spanish and Kachiquel, two of my co-trainees were dressed in the traditional wedding-garb and were fake-married, with Sandra as godmother.
Antes de la boda
It was a really fun and interesting experience. Here in town, the tradition is for a man to ask for a woman’s hand in marriage a year before they get married. The novio first asks his mother if it is ok, and then he and his mother go to the house of the novia to make a pedido. Between the time that the novio asks the novia and the marriage, the novia has to make a huipil, called a zooter for the suegra (mother-in-law). Depending on how this zooter is, the suegra sees what kind of nuera (daughter-in-law) she will have (if it is well-done that indicates that the novia is a good worker). It is local custom that the groom’s family pays for the whole wedding, so while the bride only invites family, the groom’s family has to invite half the town. It is very expensive for the family to pay for a wedding, so sometimes the novio roba la novia (that is, he asks her if she wants to run away with him, they spend the night together and then are de facto man and wife without the celebration).
Once the bride and groom are married, they usually live with the groom’s family until they can build their own house. The typical age for getting married in our town is between 14 – 17 years old for girls, and slightly older for boys. Couples choose each other; there are no arranged marriages. Marriages here are seen as an equal union, neither the man nor the wife has all the power in the relationship but instead the marriage is a partnership. Normally, a couple that falls out of love does not actually go through the process of getting a divorce since that is very expensive. Instead, they separate without going through the paperwork.

The bride and her bridesmaids. The woman immediately to her left is the woman who performed the ceremony in Spanish and Katchiquel and explained the whole process and the woman to her right sat quietly as her mother.
Sadly I am a lot older than the average marriageable girl here, and the man I have fallen in love with is significantly younger. He is my host mothers grandson and he just turned four months old. Sadly, with the almost 25-year age gap between us I think we’ll have some problems making a life together work.

Host family